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Relationship decision · shared 6–12 months after

Told my best friend of 18 years that I had feelings for her

A real outcome shared by Anonymous on WorthIt. Not advice. Not opinions. What actually happened.
The one thing nobody tells you
She didn't feel the same but she didn't run either. We're still friends but it's different now. I don't know yet if I'm glad I said it or glad it didn't end us.
Happiness after3/5 · Same
Stress after5/5 · Much higher
Financial impactNo change
? Not sure

The conversation

Anonymous

This took real courage. The fact she didn't run says a lot about your friendship. It might feel different now but at least you know.

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