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Was leaving the Catholic Church after 35 years worth it?

One person shares the outcome of this decision: “Left the Catholic Church after 35 years”. Read how it affected their happiness, stress and finances, and whether they would do it again.

A real outcome shared by Anonymous on WorthIt. Not advice. Not opinions. What actually happened.
The one thing nobody tells you
The grief was real. I hadn't expected to grieve a faith I'd chosen to leave. The community is what I actually lost — and that took years to replace.
Happiness after4/5 · Better
Stress after4/5 · Higher
Financial impactNo change
✓ Would do it again

The conversation

Anonymous

35 years is a long time. Did your family accept it or was that the hardest part?

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