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I changed religion for my partner

A real outcome shared by Anonymous on WorthIt. Not advice. Not opinions. What actually happened.
The one thing nobody tells you
It was really important to him and I wasnt really religious before so really didnt think it was a big deal but I was shocked at how other people reacted there was quite a few people who were disappointed with me which is really sad. I also didnt anticipate how much commitment my new religion was going to take. I enjoy it but it was a bit of a surprise.
Happiness after3/5 · Same
Stress after5/5 · Much higher
Financial impactNo change
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The conversation

Anonymous

I'm in a similar situation right now. How long did it take before you felt like you actually belonged in the new religion rather than just going through the motions?

Anonymous (OP) OP

Honestly about a year. The first few months I felt like a fraud but then something clicked and it became part of my routine. The community helped a lot.

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