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Was coming out as bisexual to my husband of 9 years worth it?

One person shares the outcome of this decision: “Came out as bisexual to my husband of 9 years”. Read how it affected their happiness, stress and finances, and whether they would do it again.

A real outcome shared by Anonymous on WorthIt. Not advice. Not opinions. What actually happened.
The one thing nobody tells you
He said it explained a lot. We talked for three days straight. Our marriage is stronger now than before I told him — which I genuinely did not expect.
Happiness after4/5 · Better
Stress after5/5 · Much higher
Financial impactNo change
✓ Would do it again

The conversation

Tom

The guilt is massive isn't it? I did the same thing and my dad didn't speak to me for a year. We're OK now but it was brutal.

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